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Reverse Culture Shock 
Just as you had to adjust to your new life abroad, you will also need to readjust back to the culture and lifestyle of the United States. At times, this process can be more difficult than your transition into your host culture because you may find things different from how you left them, even though you expected everything to be the same.
Reverse culture shock is described in four stages:
1. Disengagement
As your prepare for your return back to the United States, you also begin to realize that it is time to say good-bye to your friends abroad and the place that you have come to call home. With the hustle and bustle of finals, good-bye parties, and packing, your last few days fly by so fast that you do not have any time to reflect on your emotions and experiences.
2. Initial euphoria
Shortly before you return home, you become enthralled with the idea, and then the reality, of returning home. You become reacquainted with your friends and family back home, and much as everything seemed new and exciting when you first arrived abroad, you may find that everything back home seems new and exciting too.
3. Frustration
You may experience feelings of frustration, anger, alienation, loneliness, disorientation, and helplessness and not understand exactly why. You might quickly become irritated or critical of others and of U.S. culture. Depression, feeling like a stranger at home, and the longing to go back abroad are also not uncommon reactions. You may also feel less independent than you were while abroad.
4. Gradual readjustment
Things will start to seem a little more normal again, and you will probably fall back into some old routines, but things won't be exactly the same as you left them. You may have developed new attitudes, beliefs, habits, as well as personal and professional goals, and may see things differently now. The important thing is to try to incorporate the positive aspects of your international experience while abroad with the positive aspects of your life at home in the United States.
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